REALLY GREAT SONG

christmast doesn't come yet when i post this, but i really love about the sense of christmast. hope everyone really know what does christmast mean to be, not only as a tradition but know well about a baby born, Jesus, that used to die for our sin.actually,  we are not worth enough even for praise Him.

seperti palungan, layakkanlah hatiku
menyambutMu Tuhan..
seperti emas, kemenyan dan mur biar hidupku
berkenan padaMu

sebab natal tak akan berarti tanpa kasihMu
lahir di hatiku.. 
hanya bersamaMu Yesus kurasakan selalu
indahnya natal di hatiku

just a sentence

Lord... i'm tired.... it feels like there's no time,even place just to lay down my head or drop my tears.... help me Lord...

ANGER

how to manage your anger???
 for me.... i just have to count inside my heart from 1 to 100 but it's usually stop at 70 and i stop to count
or second,,, i try hard to focus in pray and ask Lord to give me His heart.... the heart of forgiveness 

Anger is the reaction that we made by ourselves.
anger comes when something or someone not do well as our claim
make sure we know what it is should be and what is the truth
if "it should be" it means we are claiming to other people
don't ask people to change as you want to be., because no one would
anger is our decision wheter to angry or just forgive it.
don't let your heart keep the anger, it will make you  so misery, in the other hand someone that you mad with, doesn't  think about your anger.
keeping your anger just bothering yourself, wasting your time, making you pain.


Anger isn't a sin. even Jesus ever got angry at Father's house when people made it as marketplace.
the sin is what we do when we get angry....(ex : saying the debauched word)
silent is the worst way to show the anger...
it just like time bomb and wait till the explode, because silent is pile up  your anger not finish it.
when you angry to someone. just speak it up but in the true way not with yelling, screaming etc.
take the best time to speak up when your emotion going slow down


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HUMAN BECOME FOOL WHEN THEY LOVE ON SOMEONE

have you ever heard this sentence? : " nobody is perfect" 

i believe you ever heard that sentence. Ya what i would like to say is people forget this sentence when they fall in love.

Why? because of their love make them blind.

they see their couple as the perfect one without see their other part, weakness.

 

that's why when they decide to get a marriage, almost people said that the first year is the hard year of marriage. they start the adaptation between their couple's weakness in their marriage.

that's why a lot of couples get a divorce. because they aren't learned about eachother weakness.

 selection stage for people decide their soulmate forever is the best stage to think objective not subjective so they will forget about "nobody is perfect" and finally get in a marriage without any consideration wheter they can accept their couple weakness or not.

there is a interesting sentence about marriage that i heard by someone who has his marriage about 10 years :" 1 year on a marriage is just all about sexuality and the year after that is just suffering."

people think they can fill their love need each other. that's totally a wrong prespective. imagine if people is a glass. their love is just like a half water in a glass, when 2 glasses try to fill each other, it will always be the other glass leave with empty water.

 

find your soulmate who love in God is the important qualification, because if she/he love in God,they will love you with God's love which is mean : unconditional and everlasting.

How it could be? because God is love and your soulmate learn to love as Jesus love human as much.

and it will never leave with an empty glass because God had fill it up.